Hey, Happy New Year!!
My name is Ben Rains. I'm 34 years of age, 6 foot 2 inches tall, 210 pounds, athletic, brown hair and eyes. I'm presently incarcerated for burglary. My life is an open book though, so please ask me any questions you'd like. I will be completely honest with you. Unfortunately, these were some of my bad decisions I made from my past.
I promised myself I would reach out this New Year. I'm trying to connect with a very special and unique woman, who won't judge me because of my present situation. I believe this doesn't define me, but I want you to find me (smile). I hope we can build something really special starting with an open friendship of communication, because I believe it all starts with real friendship. I'm a great listener as well.
At this point in my rehabilitation I've taken several steps to change my belief system and I'm proud to say I facilitate self-help groups. I'm a Big Brother and mentor helping young and other men change their old behaviors and belief systems so they don't fall back to old behaviors. I also do an apprenticeship for maintenance which will help me succeed when I get out.
Things I like to do are; work with my hands, work on cars and mostly painting. I really enjoy cooking, especially seafood. Also, I enjoy camping around a fire and grilling. I like to watch movies and TV shows, especially comedies. Along with going outside and nature hikes, camping and fishing are my passions.
I want to find a woman where we can have conversations about life and our feelings and we can communicate and get something from this. So, if I'm what you are looking for……