Christopher Blaho is 38 years old and incarcerated in Ohio, USA

WAIT! STOP!

This could be one of those once-in-a-lifetime opportunities, the kind you wish you'd taken when looking back. I don't know about you, but I'm on this site because I'm so tired of the same old, same old. Something’s not working, not clicking. I live in a dark world, and I'm looking for that person who brings out the spark in me, shines that light in my life—and I want to be that same spark for them. Someone like-minded who wants to work on their mind, body, and soul with me.

I've learned I'm highly motivated by outside factors. I want that motivator, that partner to push, that muse to inspire—whether it be a friend, penpal, or more. They say people come into your life for a season, some for a reason, and if you are lucky, a small few will stay forever. I'm taking steps in my life recently to be a better man, to make a positive change. If you think you can be a part of that change, don't hesitate to reach out to me, and I'll show you I'm worth holding onto.

I'm currently enrolled in college, and I spend a portion of each day bettering myself. I love to work out, read (mostly self-help, knowledge, spirituality), play softball, draw, paint, tattoo—hell, I even sew. LOL! Anything creative really helps me stay out of here and out of my head—IYKYK.

I really just want someone to laugh and hang out with. Someone I get excited to wake up for. I used to have that in my life long ago, and I have been waiting for that feeling again. That person just wasn't one of those few that stays forever. But I remember the feeling, and I know there is a person out there, maybe reading this now, nervous to reach out, to try something new and scary...I wish she wouldn't be.

The fastest and easiest way to get hold of me is through the messaging app (where we can instant message).

I hope that helps you contact me. When you do, I would like a photo to put to the personality and voice. I hope to hear from you soon.