Women need love…men need respect. This is God’s design when both needs are met a virtuous cycle begins; a woman who is loved finds it far easier to show respect, a man who is respected finds it far easier to show love. When those needs are not met, the cycle turns vicious. If a woman doesn’t receive love, she tends to withhold respect, if a man doesn’t receive respect he tends to withhold love…Men must love unconditionally…Women must respect unconditionally…A man must love his woman even when she isn’t loveable, one must govern his thoughts and actions towards love. A woman must respect her man even when one isn’t respectable – she must govern her thoughts…not just show reverence but be reverent. God’s plan is about the way for us to give; a man must give love to a woman; a man must give Godly leadership to a woman – leadership that earns her respect and that is a joy to submit to and a woman must be a loveable woman, to recognize, encourage and receive a man’s love, a man who applies this instruction will be fulfilling a woman’s greatest need from -Love- A woman needs attention; she needs appreciation, approval and sincere compliments; to be loved, respected and treated with tenderness…a shoulder to cry on, her opinions count, wisdom counts, she needs to know that a man appreciates her differences and tries to understand her emotions – she needs them to be sensitive, protective and caring.