am i being impatient here?

Bolt. Start up with a new guy. There are plenty. Like I saw on TV that 93% of incarcerated individuals are men so you have PLENTY to start up a dialogue with and not all are sex fiends. Whether this statictic just means women in general are less likely to comit a crime (or smart enough to not get caught haha) I cant say.

Asha,ya i dont even know why i wrote that i already knew the answer guess i just needed comfermation .Its like when you call someone they have an answering machine so you know they got your messages you leave several but they dont call you back. thats my example of the same thing you kinda get the hint after awhile.

DragonFLLLYYYY
all my huggs go to you today,,Hun listen to a chick thats been around a few new york blocks,,,,like my grannie use to say ,,you never leave home without a spare tire. Although I am not negating the relationship and time you spent on this dude,,, BUT its tooooo many others that would jump at the chance to have you writing them ,,,,this is the only place by far where the men, for once, out number the women,,,so you are in the driver seat, where as in the real world that might not be the case. so get you a spare tire and meet me on route 66-
Babi

The part about 93% are men is because any woman of any intelligence can get out easier.

The system is not designed to hold women/wives/mothers the same as it is to hold guys.

Shall we say that some are better able to manipulate the system?

I point to the disproportionate racial population of prisons as an example of how the system treats accused people differently based on factors not realted to their crimes (unless Blacks and Latinos are just more criminally oriented because of the poverty caused by some being better able to manipulate the capitalist system based on factors of race and so forth . . .)

alright girlfriend ha ha meet you there. You are so funny

welcomehome ,i might head for rout 66 sounds good lord knows i need a vacation !men hu the underlining tone in the letter he last sent was sacastic he said"thats for keeping me in check i will watch myself from now on" never mentioned all the jokes i sent him wich was pages and pages some printed some hand written which took hours .it was like i was writting to the air!

well well well what a surprise just checked the mail nothing again.a footnote to my post one of the reasons i did pick him was because of his sighn i know fire sighns like the back of my hand and especially aries men.Being an air sighn myself i do know how to push the buttons of a fire sighn but im not into head games and ive grown up over the years ha ha so im not even going to go there if he writes he will get a short nice letter if not oh well girls a wise man once said "I might be some dumb ,but im not plum dumb"

Hi dragonfly,
I have to agree with most of the previous advice. With the little effort that this PP is putting into writing, it is time to move on.
And, in response to WelcomeHome, I would mostly agree. But, sadly, the number of incarcerated women is increasing rapidly. And, it would appear that the increase in drug usage is at the root of it.
However, I would also agree that women may get off a little lighter. Not because they are more manipulative, but because I think that society, as a whole, is more sympathetic to women: the gentler sex.
I was never more shocked, in my life, when a cute, young, god-fearing, Christian girl, that I worked with, told about being pulled over by the police. She told all that she went through. Batting the eyelashes, talking sweetly and then breaking down in tears. Thus, no speeding ticket, she laughed.
Women!! They all know how to use it. :-))

Dragon FLY!!!!
Aries!!!! Well let me tell you about my Aries friend on the outside,,,Known him for about 17 years,,,proclaimed undying love for me no matter what,,,and we did remain friends for years. Well his birthday was Easter,,So I said Lets get together the Friday before,,we always hook up on his Birthday,,I was going to make it special so I told him,,, listen I am going to do a few things in celebration,,So let me know for SURE if Friday is a Go. Oh He swore on cheese and crackers that it was Go. So something told me,,,hmmm just reserve things dont do anything. Well low and behold Thursday nite I call no answer,, leave message,,no reply,,Call Friday Morn,,Afternoon,,finally I just cussed his butt out in a voicemail,,which I know when someone is ignoring me,,And I never called on his birthday,,Now He had a friend named J,,,He never wanted J to really get close to me,,,well J calls me Monday and was like he saw C on Sunday at the gym as if it was just a regular ole day,,,I was like C who? After 17 years??? Me being a Fire Sign,,,He betta not ever darken my door again,,and knowing "some" Aries men it will be when He needs something. But he has lost a very good friend and I dont give two rats tails what his reasoning is,,And he still has not called! When I think back on all the things I did for him$,bailing him out, getting his kids,taking his mother to the Dentist on and on,,,I am so furious,,,but the fury has changed to a lying in wait mode,,,,GRRRRR,,ahh but the mature side of me says ,,Its His loss not mine!!!
Babi

sure you not related to me babi ha ha .I noticed the leo's want to save you and then want to run off to rescue the new damsel in destress. the sag's last of the red hot lovers (freaky) but fun unless you get serious, aries always testing not very trusting great as boody call or friends not so great in a relationship now nobody get offended especially the guys whom im talking about the men.but its true fire and air is hot but in a love relationship combustible

Why not start writing another PP and answer this PPs letters whenever he sends you one??? Some of my PP sends me a letter about twice a month and I send them a replay twice a month too,sometimes a postcard to say "hi" when I feel like it....
There are real friends,ordinairy friends and people you know and just get along with....and I just like them all....

good idia but i think i better get over myself first before i start writting anyone else.

But in honesty Dragon, I mean sometimes I do want a sexual relationship with my PP but since that doesnt really seem possible, I always steer the conversation away. Primarily because i realise these letters are scanned by the visitation dept. and I am just uncomfortable/not good at "pen pal sex". I think he understands this but the letters have increasingly become filled with innuendo and sometimes we talk about other topics sexually, like nature channel shows haah, seems funny but its the only way. I also am not certain that if our conversation turned sexual if correspndance would be denied. Some prisons are strict, especially max and do not want anything to set off inmates. Sex is a good way to set them off aggresively.

asha ,remember this someone told me a lomg time ago and it was an Aries ha ha "never ever put anything in writting that you dont want anyone else to read, or use against you later" so id keep it light

agreed in a big way

at first i thought about that old song parinoia self desroyer ha ha but it is good advice you can claim you didnt say something you spoke but how do you deny something that is in your very own handwritting? you cant ! that was 20 something years ago and you know what i still keep that in mind to this day!

at first i thought about that old song parinoia self desroyer ha ha but it is good advice you can claim you didnt say something you spoke but how do you deny something that is in your very own handwritting? you cant ! that was 20 something years ago and you know what i still keep that in mind to this day!

lloks like there is an echo in here lol i didnt realize i posted this twice

just came to the realization lol ive been writing "writting"maybe he cant read my horrible spelling

Hi Dragon,,,
Well you caught me red-handed I am the Freak!!! Heehehe Sagg all the way!!!
Asha,,I got a letter for THE Super Max,,the Alcatraz of the Rockies,,and it was like WHOA!!!! If some one read that letter,,they needed a shower afterwards,,,And of course me being the Freak that I was born to be,,hehehe,,, Wrote one right back but dint sign my name,,,hahaha.

remember that old song lol i'll be your freakazoid come on and wind me up man you can tell im old

I think they played that song at my Prom,,,LOL!

SEROUSLY now babi behave yourself should i write one last letter saying : im my oh so
libra way:Dear James (instead of Dear John)
Things must not be going well as i havent heard from you so im going to leave you with this thought :I will be there if you need me a friend is there during good times and bad.(dripping sweetmess) your friend Tracy what do you think? I will put it on a post card. grinning

then wait a month if he does write back to respond hee hee ive got an evil streak in me right now.

Again no mail grrrrrrr

I have this same sort of problem with my p/p I have to drag letter out of him the last one I got was the 13th of this month we are now near the end of the month he always has a fantastic excuse. and i have noticed this happening since about December. I have up until now given him the benefit of the doubt but now my patience is wearing thin. I do care about him. but I am asking myself lately is he just giving me the run around now your thoughts please

well pink i dont think its very fair .as i said the least they could do is respond or have a good explination as to why they didnt.not just smooth it over im not sure about you but patients isnt one of my finer qualitys