hey, im very new to this site and concept, and are still trying to figure my way around it, so i have a few questions, sorry if they are dumb.
i had no idea that one could see the crime of the inmate, so i sent an email to this one guy, and later found out he did a crime that im very uncomfortable with, i easily feel bad and i dont want him to be happy with getting a letter, only to be rejected later, i feel mean, but im not comfrotable talking to the guy knowing the crime, or should i try and look past his crime and give it a shot? i know hes still a human, but i wouldnt be able to not think about the crime. im unsure what to do. sorry if this sounds dumb, i know i should have read the crime beforehand.
also on some profiles it says listed on the profile "writeaprisoner.com: no". what does that mean? it clearly says they want someone to befriend them and send them letters, so im confused, wich leads me to the next question:
is it so that some only want mails or contact via jpay? im not sure how jpay works, and im having a hard time understanding it. would love some replies since im having a hard time understanding.
thx in advance!