i was wondering, not to bring up a sad topic on Easter, how you went about finding a dr pp, or if you found the pp then saw he was on death row. I actually been thinking of writing a dr pp, so yesterday i was just searching through the dr ads when i came across one that said this inmate has been executed across his ad, now im not sure how to deal with writing a dr pp. any comments, again sorry for the sorrowfulness on such a joyous occasion.
Wendy
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For me personally i found my DR friend from researching the death penalty. He did not advertise, so i actually came on the forum and asked opinions would i be invading his privacy if i wrote him.
Well i did write, and the rest, as they say is history.
There is no sorrow when you reach out to help another in kindness.
When a blind man carries a lame man, both go forward. (smiles)
You will do well what ever your choice, i have faith.
Just keep in mind it's a serious commitment and also they could very well get a date , many that lose pals , lose them when they get a date and the pal can't handle or doesn't know how to !!
Good luck !!
Hi Wendy,
I write mainly to guys on DR. The experience is different with each one.
Personally I think the thing that helps the most is if you have friends who will support you in what you're doing and that will be there to talk to if the dreaded situation does occur.
If you're the kinda of person who wants to write to a DR inmate and you think you can handle the up's and down's associated with it then I think it would be great if you did.
Good luck with whatever you decided to do.
Coyote
Hiya, wendy can you email me please
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kittypuss_20 [at] yahoo.co.ukrel="nofollow"
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Kitty xx
Ive been writing to my DR pp for almost 2 years. Its been a great experience. He has been on death row for many years and had many failed appeals. I have no idea when his final date will come but in the mean time I just try to enjoy his friendship and offer friendship in return. No one really knows how they will cope with a pals execution until it happens and they go through it. I imagine it would be difficult for any one. I wouldnt want to go through it without the support of my husband.
Cleo