Was trying to navigate this one on my own but things are really starting to get out of hand. I have a PP who has gotten really possessive and has started treating me like I'm his in pretty much every way. It's gone beyond "I don't like the idea of you writing other inmates" into writing my name with his last name on the end and getting jealous over a close friend of mine who is a woman and therefore not even in my dating pool. I mentioned my friend in one sentence, in one letter, and he's latched onto that detail. In my last letter I softly was like, hey, I don't want to break your heart dude, I need you to calm down. The most recent letter I've gotten is honestly a little scary (was postmarked before my other letter went out) and I showed it to my friend and she has been telling me to "nuke" my whole thing with him because she is really concerned by his behavior. I'm starting to wonder if she is right and I should.
I want to give him a "dude, cool your shit or I'm out" letter but I don't want to hurt his feelings if it was just a misunderstanding on my part. I thought it was cute at first that he had nicknames for me but... Things are getting dicey. It's one of the few times I've been really glad I have a PO Box. Do I think he would/can do anything? No, but it helps me sleep at night knowing he doesn't have my address.
I don't know. Should I wait and see? I told him I wouldn't walk out on him but this... I don't like it.