fave pp

I write to several inmates and I enjoy every letter I get, but I also have a favorite pen pal with whom I write most frequently. He is very funny and we have a lot of things in common as well. I think we are pretty similar in some way and that's why we get on so well with each other. :)

oh yeah i have my favorite. he was the one that i really didn't know if i should write but 2 lines into his first letter i knew he was going to be my favorite. he's hilarious, crazy smart, and his letters are like poetry esp compared to my scatter brained all over the place letters i write to him.

I always find that the people I think I'll be most compatible with never respond after my first letter, so the people I get to know most are the others I write to. I have a few favorites, but it depends. I feel like my favorites are determined by how long my letters to them end up being, I don't have any control over it!

My fave is the one I thought least likely to respond or like me in any way!!!! From letter one I knew he was absolutely the one I would like writing to the most. You just cannot tell it because it may not fall the way you think it will.

Actually my fave pen pal came from my fave profile. At first, he was my least favorite. haha. But now he's my favorite and my boyfriend.

My favorite penpal is the one who I correspond with most frequently. He is also the one who I feel is most willing to listen to what I have to say, and who shows interest in the things I am interested in (even if the ideas I talk about are new to him!)

I have a favorite, he writes more than the others which helps because we know each other so much better and we have so many different things in common.

I started out with a few PP's, over time they stopped writing. One found a girlfriend and decided to stop, one of them I just didn't get on with and another was odd to say the least. I now have the one PP and he is the one I clicked with immediately. We just gel nicely. He has me in hysterics every letter he sends, we love the same things etc. I feel so honoured that I have him in my life. He has had such a positive effect on my heart and soul and I am pleased to now have him as my boyfriend. Bring on September.

It is so funny, because when I first started writing to pen pals, I thought, there was NO WAY I wanted to be involved on more than a friendship level, and I let my penpals know, but this one guy.... well, if he was not serving a life sentence I would really want him to be my man!

When I started writing I had NO intention of falling for anyone. I set out to brighten someones day and become their confidant. Thats why I picked the one I wasn't attracted too. Well before I knew it I absolutely adore this chap I have never met. Seems utterly crazy. That's why I'm flying out there in September. Need to know if my feelings are indeed true.......I am dreading that moment when I walk in that visitation room and see him and am thinking to myself "Oh my lord, what's that"? LOL Don't mean it. But I do think a lot of it is infatuation and lust. That's why I have to meet him face to face.

Naddy - I so understand how you feel. I thought, oh well, I will write to men I do not find all that attractive.... except for this one!!! See, I should never have started writing to a man with dreads, since I know I am very attracted to men with dreadlocks (I mean the men who wear dreadlocks as a political/cultural statement, NOT the ones who wear them just for fashion!) I SPECIFICALLY chose men who would not be getting out any time soon, to AVOID the whole "well, let's get together as BF/GF situation" and NOW I am considering going to visit this man soon! I find myself looking for his letters, laughing at them, reading them over and over!

At the end of the day bbwdreamsicle it's not about what someone looks like on the outside. It's what's inside that counts. Then again I am that bit older, so good looking guys don't do anything for me anymore. It's whether you click on a personal level thats important. I couldn't write to someone that was in for life. I wanted a friendship out of this and that meant on the outside world too. You become so close to these PP's that the thought of never meeting them face to face seemed crazy to me. But that's just me..........

True Naddy.... the inside is what counts... and that is what I was referring to when I spoke of how much I like men with dreads (as I said, it is the political/cultural aspects of men with dreads that I find myself attracted to not necessarily the physical)

True Naddy.... the inside is what counts... and that is what I was referring to when I spoke of how much I like men with dreads (as I said, it is the political/cultural aspects of men with dreads that I find myself attracted to not necessarily the physical)

Well I do hope that whatever you decide with this PP your starting to like that it all works out which ever way you choose to go. I do think guys are more attracted to woman physically than mentally, although I think that they can change the older they get and as we know guys are often the ones that choose to hide their emotions. But I have found that writing to my chap that he is very open and sensative......you get to know them on a deeper level than you would with someone on the outside?