Hi everyone. I hate to admit it but I feel like I have made a mistake. I started writing to a female inmate about 8 months ago. To make it short, I have been sending $45 a week because I care about her, I have the money and I don't want her to go without or have to be a scammer in there.
I admit she's very beautiful thats what got me. Her letters aren't deep at all. She just writes short letters that don't say much. I understand they don't always have much to say.
My problem is this. At first she always said thanks when she got the money. Now she doesn't even say thanks. I sent her money last week Tuesday or Wednesday she sent me a very short message that night. No thank you or any mention of the money. Maybe I'm just being silly but I would like a "thank you for the money,". The next day she message me asking can I send $20 more for music and games. But she didn't even say thanks for the $45 or for the weeks before. Plus reading these boards I found out $45 a week which is over $200 a month is more than wives usually even send their husband. We are not married just friends.
I really don't care about the money. I sent it because I wanted her to have it. But to not even say thank you really really sticks in my craw as they say. This lack of thank you isn't just 1 week. If she forgot once or twice I would ignore it but no thank you every week now then to ask for more when she's already getting $200+ a month and when she didn't even say thanks. I could jpay her and tell her I need a thank you every week I just don't feel like I should have to ask for it. Am I right or am I making this too serious ? Thank you