So I recently got back in touch with someone that I was writing back in 2019. He got released at the end of 2019 and then he went back to jail around February/March of this year and we lost contact for about 3 months because he couldn't remember my address. I wrote a letter to a jail I thought he might be in about a month and half ago to see if he was actually in jail and I got a reply back from him. So far he's written me 3 letters. He told me in his letter that right before he got arrested he was on his way to come surprise visit me (we had plans of him coming to live with me at some point, so this is okay with me) but then got arrested.
He also sent me visiting forms so that I can come visit him in jail. He tells me that he misses me and calls me baby and things like that. He also said he still has all of my pictures I sent him before and that he hopes I don't have a new boyfriend, ect.
THE THING IS.......I creeped his facebook and I found a girl on there that has a picture of him as her cover photo and it says that she's "in a complicated relationship". His facebook says that he's single though. I tried adding him and I noticed that my friend request was denied. He has not brought this up to me at all in his letters.
I'm so so confused on what to do. I don't know if he started this "relationship" with this girl when he got arrested again because he was unable to get into contact with me and so he started talking to someone else.
I don't know how to even bring this up to him because he'll know that I was stalking his fb lol and I feel awkward about that.
I kinda feel like I want to stop talking to him now too because it's like he's not being straightup/honest with me.
Any advice on what I should do??