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<Peyton>
<Peyton>

OMG I'm sooooooooooooooo nervous/excited!!! I am going to visit my PP this weekend...I have no idea what to wear--or what to expect!!!


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Sweets06
Sweets06

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh how exciting!!! Im so jealous of you guys and all your visits!! Im still waiting on my damn approval then Ill be on my way! Grrr!

So happy for you! Where are you going? I have to travel like 600 miles i think? Plane obviously, are you driving?

 
<Peyton>
<Peyton>

Yeah....I have a loooong drive! Its like 540 miles or something..my roommate is coming with me though so we'll take turns driving at least..he's in Kentucky..I'm leaving on Thursday. I'm really excited but super nervous!! Any suggestions on what to wear?? lol...i need to do some shopping since a lot of what I have is not 'appropriate'..its been a really long time since I've been in a prison so I'm really nervous about what to do when I get there and everything..... yikes!

 
Adrianna
Adrianna

How exciting!!!!! :yippie::yippie:

My pp said to always bring a pair of jeans and a tee shirt that isn't low cut for a back up...i have never visited anyone in prison so not really sure.

I know all my clothes are not "appropriate" either lol!

I wonder why they make you dress so conservatively? I mean sandles with socks? huh??!! :roflmao:

Anyway Have fun!!!!!!!! And let us all know how it went!!!!:jiggy:

 
Michelle21
Michelle21

WOOO! so happy for you :D and jealous, as always! haha :D im sure you'll have a great time! :D

 
Xray48
Xray48

Congratulations, Peyton. I'm sure that you will have a great time. Be sure to tell us about it. Drive safely. :-)

 
Anonymous
Anonymous

Hoping your visit went well Peyton? Can't wait to hear all about it. What did you decide to wear?

 
Xtina
Xtina

Yaaaaay!! You're gonna have the best time!

Every place is different for the dress standards. Read the DOC dress code thoroughly, choose an outfit you think is cute but appropriate and take a back up JUST IN CASE!! That's what I did, and luckily my first choice was acceptable. Give yourself plenty of time :)

 
LETxGO
LETxGO

Wow that is awesome! I'm super jealous (my pp's are all on the other side of the world :() have a great time!!

 
whiterose
whiterose

have a great vissit have to say i'm always a little jealous ......i want to vissit my friends too,but it's so far away and i got my kids and hubby at home.
please don't be to nervous guess your friend is too!!!!

 
queenbella
queenbella

Have a greaaaaaaaaaaaaat time, and tell us all how it went!

 
english2791
english2791

dress code seemed relaxed when i went as long as you have sleeves of some description no one was told to change

 
<Peyton>
<Peyton>

I am visiting this coming Saturday and Sunday---so I am stilllll trying to figure out what to wear and how to do my hair lol. My pp keeps telling me that he doesn't care if I take a shower or brush my teeth--as long as he gets to see me. Obviously Im freaking out about it a lot more than him--but he doesn't have to freak out about it since his wardrobe is already picked out!

There is not a lot on the DOC page regarding dress code. I thought there would be more on there since it is a maximum security prison. When my goddaughter's dad was locked up there were all kinds of rules about no opened toed shoes and stuff--and this facility doesn't have any rules like that posted. Do you think I should call down there and make sure that there aren't other rules that aren't posted on the website.

 
Adrianna
Adrianna

I am visiting this coming Saturday and Sunday---so I am stilllll trying to figure out what to wear and how to do my hair lol. My pp keeps telling me that he doesn't care if I take a shower or brush my teeth--as long as he gets to see me. Obviously Im freaking out about it a lot more than him--but he doesn't have to freak out about it since his wardrobe is already picked out!

There is not a lot on the DOC page regarding dress code. I thought there would be more on there since it is a maximum security prison. When my goddaughter's dad was locked up there were all kinds of rules about no opened toed shoes and stuff--and this facility doesn't have any rules like that posted. Do you think I should call down there and make sure that there aren't other rules that aren't posted on the website.

Yes I would probably call just to be on the safe side!:)

 
LETxGO
LETxGO

I would definitely call! And I would take an extra outfit *just in case* they had any problems

 
<Peyton>
<Peyton>

They put me on the phone with the captain...and it was soooooooo funny when I asked him about wearing underwire bras...hahahaha he's like umm...you can't have that..you know...wire...in the..umm...in the...the....the..you know....the undergarment...hahahaha so cute.

I leave today!!! I still don't think its hit me yet---ahhh!!!

 
LETxGO
LETxGO

Haha aw cute convo!! let us know how it goes as soon as you get a chance!!

 
Lachsis
Lachsis

Have FUUUUUUUUUNNNNN!!!!!!
And, of course, tell us everything about it, when you're back ... can't wait for details!!! =^:^=

 
Adrianna
Adrianna

They put me on the phone with the captain...and it was soooooooo funny when I asked him about wearing underwire bras...hahahaha he's like umm...you can't have that..you know...wire...in the..umm...in the...the....the..you know....the undergarment...hahahaha so cute.

I leave today!!! I still don't think its hit me yet---ahhh!!!

:giggle:

Have fun!! Can't wait to hear how it went!!:jiggy:

 
anewme416
anewme416

I would love to vist my pp but i am a x felon myself and here in va unless ur immediate family u cant visit..tear..

 
Sweets06
Sweets06

They put me on the phone with the captain...and it was soooooooo funny when I asked him about wearing underwire bras...hahahaha he's like umm...you can't have that..you know...wire...in the..umm...in the...the....the..you know....the undergarment...hahahaha so cute.

I leave today!!! I still don't think its hit me yet---ahhh!!!

That is sooo funny! :00009136:

The ppl at my pp's prison are so nice! I hope they are that nice to him, he says they are but who really ever knows///:EEK1:

 
<Peyton>
<Peyton>

Im here after 9 hours of driving! I can't believe that he's soooo close to me right now!!! Im crazy nervous/exciting--cant wait until saturday morning!!!!

 
Adrianna
Adrianna

Im here after 9 hours of driving! I can't believe that he's soooo close to me right now!!! Im crazy nervous/exciting--cant wait until saturday morning!!!!

Have fun..... and just relax!!:hug:

Can't wait to hear about the visit!!:woohoo:

 
Anonymous
Anonymous

OOOOOHHHH How exciting for you :woohoo:

I can't wait to hear all about it..........

 
<Peyton>
<Peyton>

FREAKING OUT!!!!! OMG!!!!!!!! LIKE ONE HOUR!!!!!!! AHHH!!!!!!

 
Adrianna
Adrianna

FREAKING OUT!!!!! OMG!!!!!!!! LIKE ONE HOUR!!!!!!! AHHH!!!!!!

WOOT!!! Enjoy your time with your pp!!! How exciting!!:yippie:

 
LETxGO
LETxGO

have a great visit Peyton!!

 
<Peyton>
<Peyton>

OMG! OMG! OMG! OMGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 
Sweets06
Sweets06

OMG! OMG! OMG! OMGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You've told me about it but I want more details and so does everyone else! Haha. Details details details!!!!

 
<Peyton>
<Peyton>

Oh trust me...you guys (or should I say ya'll since I'm in Kentucky.. =P ) will get plenty of details...right after I go eat!!! lol I'm sooooo freaking happy right now...I can't think of a better feeling!!! I loved EVERY second of it!!!!

 
Sweets06
Sweets06

Getting lucky in Kentucky haha.

 
Sweets06
Sweets06

I really don't know why I just posted that lol....

 
Anonymous
Anonymous

SO........SO......SO..........COME ON I WANT TO KNOW ALL THE SORBID DETAILS NOW..........PLEASE DON'T KEEP US HANGING ON..........................................................................................

 
Adrianna
Adrianna

Yessssssssssss!!! Details!!!! :uk2:

 
LETxGO
LETxGO

ANOTHER VOTE FOR DETAILS ASAP!
we neeeeed to hear all about it! so happy for you that it went so well, yay!

 
<Peyton>
<Peyton>

Ah darn, I just typed out a super long message and accidentely deleted it all...ok....I'll start again!

 
LETxGO
LETxGO

Ah darn, I just typed out a super long message and accidentely deleted it all...ok....I'll start again!

oh darn..hate when that happens! I've been refreshing this thread waiting for you to tell us haha..can't wait to hear all about it!!

 
<Peyton>
<Peyton>

Well first of all...OMG! Have I said that yet??? It was defintitely all I had hoped for--and more! I was surprised how laid back everything was actually. I had been told (including by the guy I write to) that I wasn't allowed to wear flip flops or opened toed shoes, but I saw girls there wearing both. When I got there I was frisked and I had to take my shoes off and walk through the metal detector of course. The buttons on my jeans kept setting it off but she let me through anyway.

Then I saw him.......................:swoon: I swear I could have just fallen right over. He waved at me through the bars before he got searched. It was adorable cause he has really bad eye sight and I guess he borrowed a pair of glasses from his friend so that he could see me from way out in the cell house lol. Then a few minutes later he came in. I was surprised..we actually got to give each other a pretty long..................................hug? =p ....sweets has the juicy details on that! lol =))))) :a011203mht_prv: And I loved every second of it! The COs were really cool too, my shirt wasn't all that conservative and they didn't tell me anything about it lol. We were much 'closer' than I thought we'd be allowed to be, and one of the COs saw him touch my.....backside..?...when we were taking a picture and just smiled and said we were cute together :bluebowdanc:

The time went by SO fast! It was crazy. I'm soooo incredibally happy that I came, but at the same time, it's going to KILL me to have to leave him tomorrow. I'm reeeaaallllyyy hoping that he makes parole in October...

Omg..I still can't believe that I finally met him! It all just seems unreal! I'm crazy for this boy.................... (umm..insert embarrassed face here?)

I can't wait to see him tomorrow!!!

 
Adrianna
Adrianna

oh darn..hate when that happens! I've been refreshing this thread waiting for you to tell us haha..can't wait to hear all about it!!

I know me too!!:00009136:

 
Adrianna
Adrianna

:woohoo: Yeahhhh!!! I'm sooo happy it went well! Sounds like you had an awesome time!! Thanks for sharing all this with us!!! I know it will be hard tomorrow to leave....but, there is always another visit!!!:bluebowdanc:

 
<Peyton>
<Peyton>

I know! My roommate already told me that if I could get off work one more time, and school, before summer is over that she would come back to Kentucky again with me!!! =) I have to give my days off for work 60 days in advance though..thats the hard part... =/

 
LETxGO
LETxGO

Well first of all...OMG! Have I said that yet??? It was defintitely all I had hoped for--and more! I was surprised how laid back everything was actually. I had been told (including by the guy I write to) that I wasn't allowed to wear flip flops or opened toed shoes, but I saw girls there wearing both. When I got there I was frisked and I had to take my shoes off and walk through the metal detector of course. The buttons on my jeans kept setting it off but she let me through anyway.

Then I saw him.......................:swoon: I swear I could have just fallen right over. He waved at me through the bars before he got searched. It was adorable cause he has really bad eye sight and I guess he borrowed a pair of glasses from his friend so that he could see me from way out in the cell house lol. Then a few minutes later he came in. I was surprised..we actually got to give each other a pretty long..................................hug? =p ....sweets has the juicy details on that! lol =))))) :a011203mht_prv: And I loved every second of it! The COs were really cool too, my shirt wasn't all that conservative and they didn't tell me anything about it lol. We were much 'closer' than I thought we'd be allowed to be, and one of the COs saw him touch my.....backside..?...when we were taking a picture and just smiled and said we were cute together :bluebowdanc:

The time went by SO fast! It was crazy. I'm soooo incredibally happy that I came, but at the same time, it's going to KILL me to have to leave him tomorrow. I'm reeeaaallllyyy hoping that he makes parole in October...

Omg..I still can't believe that I finally met him! It all just seems unreal! I'm crazy for this boy.................... (umm..insert embarrassed face here?)

I can't wait to see him tomorrow!!!

awww so cute! have a great visit tomorrow:woohoo:

 
Anonymous
Anonymous

Oh Peyton, I am so happy it well.....I feel all fuzzy & warm inside.....Did you get upset at all on having to leave him..............Know I will when I see my PP.

So Happy for you :00009136:

 
curiouscat19
curiouscat19

Wow Peyton you are so lucky and I'm so happy for you.............its great when you do finally see them face to face and I cant wait for when I get the chance, at the rate I'm going I'm gonna be selling a whole lot of things just to raise funds to be able to go visit (am thinking of selling off my kids' toys they dont need them...........)........but hew well done.

Wow your work is tough 60 days for a day's leave? or is that for any length of time leave? I want to be able to take 3 weeks off so I'm gonna visit next year.

 
Xtina
Xtina

That's sooo great to hear :) I hope you get back for another visit ASAP

 
SandyF
SandyF

So cool for you Peyton ! It was actually very funny to follow you through this journey, and how nervous you were before meeting him ! I'm glad for you, that it went exactly the way you wanted it and that you guys got to actually hug each other !! ;)

Well, hope the second visit was as good as the first one - he's probably spent the best week-end he's ever had since he's locked up !!

yeahhhh gotta love the WAppers !