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ForTerra

So a loved one of mine inside is struggling. She was locked up in March of 2020. By May of 2020 her husband had moved in with another woman. At first we didn't like this woman. But come to find out she had thought they were split up. She didn't know they weren't until February of 2021. So she's fell in love with him and wants to stay with him too. She basicly said he wants them both and for them all to live in the same home when she's released. His live in girlfriend is fine with it. His wife is not. His girlfriend is sending the wife canteen, writing her, asking about her well being. The wife is very appreciative because the husband has never wrote her a letter, blocked her calls, didn't contact her at all for 5.5 months, has only had 3 visits with her, and only responded to emails for a month. His wife was pregnant in jail during this time. The wife expressed she didn't want the girlfriend involved. We've heard most men leave their wives after a year. She's got 2 more years to go. What's the likelihood that their marriage will survive or should we assume the girlfriend is the new permanent fixture?

 
ForTerra

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ForTerra

I set her up a lost vault account maybe she'll find someone else. I think she's afraid no one else will want her.

 
Selosa

I think she should try to get a job inside so she doesn't have to rely on her husband's mistress for money. If she has no support from her parents that is.

 
ForTerra

Technically the mistress is the only friend she's had on the outside. She's the only person who has been able to afford to take care of her while she's in there. She vents to me but I'm limited on being able to call or message. I can't afford to send canteen. The mistress is becoming her person to vent to, because she actually listens. I don't trust it not at all. She gave the mistress her SSN, birthdate, etc to take care of some things for her out here. I'm worried about this situation myself but I can understand in away why she's comforted by her, they talk either in messages daily.

 
Selosa

Your friend is not using her mind if she still wants to be married to him. And why would she accept money and friendship from her husband's mistress? Shouldn't she be thinking about how she is seperated from her baby?