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Sunflower1

May be getting scammed so many feelings of ~this doesn't seem right~ I never dated a prisoner b4 so I let alot of things go and forgave him too quickly but I feel like I may be involved in some sort of love scam. Has anyone dated someone on the inside without meeting them first and had some things bad happen??

 
Firefeather

That is a big NO-NO. Why the hell didnt he just send the money directly to her. I find it quite disgusting how you have been treated and it wouldnt suprise me if the "Giirlfriend" is well aware of what he is doing. He needs to be proven as a scammer so othes dont fall for it. How disrespectful. Do not worry though because karma is a bi**h and it will come around to slap him in the face one day. I am so sorry you have gone through this but gather yourself together, grasp your self respect back and get him gone also I would join the scamming groups on facebook as posted above and get his name and photo on there. Would serve him right and could possibly stop him from doing it again. I have just joined one of the groups as I was interested what they were about and I think they could be extremely useful in this situation.

XX

 
jennapark19999

Kirsten* Sorry, my autocorrect got the better of me :)

 
jennapark19999

I hate to break it to you but like Kristen said, you got your answer. No person taking you or your relationship seriously would message someone else back in a non-platonic way. Tell him what`s up and don`t waste anymore time on the dude, he doesn`t deserve it 

 
Kirsten

Well,then you don't have a gut feeling, then you KNOW what's going on. And then it's up to you what you do with that knowledge.

And no, I don't write to him. Don't have anyone in Michigan anyway.

 
Sunflower1

Hello yes I can tell you a story or two that are true
First one is he asked me to set up his stimulus check for him and have it come to my cash app and he gave a womans name to give the money to via cash app and he would not tell me who she was when asked. I ended up searching that name on Facebook and there was a post where she said my boyfriend kezia sent me this gift and there was a picture of a gift . Another story is he asked me to make anew JPay account because alot of my pics I was sending were getting denied so I made anew acct in a different name and he messaged it thinking it was not me I played along for 3 messags sent back n forth and he was trying to start a relationship with this fake person he thought I was . And there's more things like those

 
Firefeather

 

 

I am not in contact with that specific person but similar feelings went through my mind before I even initiated contact with my pp. I was given my pp's name, details and number and I had to make a concious decision as to wether I wanted to go ahead with it. I had heard and read about some real sad stories where innocent and geniune people fell into love traps or were deemed vulnerable by the inmate and used in that regard. I know I am a sensitive person, I wear my heart on my sleeve, I am loyal and will do anything for those I care about, I knew deep down I could be a potential target. I went ahead with it anyway but as Mild stated, I took my head with me. My senses were on high alert and I tried to come across as totally objective and purley platonic... But feelings do arise, wether that is in a romantic way or a platonic way, we share a great deal with them and it is easy, so very easy to let our guards down.

I hate to admitt this but I still have my wits about me, I am not sure I fully trust the situation but I know form damn sure I am going to stick with my gut. Your gut feelings are very rarely wrong. It could well be your intuition giving you a warning or something more sinister but please do listen to that gut.

Have you spoken to said person about how you might be feeling? Are things not aligning up with what they are telling you? You are always the one in control in my opinion, the free world allows us that to some degree. Have you caught him out? Actions always speak louder than words in these situations. Go with your gut but take your head as your armour.

I hope it all turns out well

xxx