The is already a post about Oregon pen pals using relationships to get money from not just women but anyone. THESE MEN DONT WANT A PEN PAL. THEY WANT YOUR MONEY.
It costs them almost nothing and you will never find out unless someone tells you. There is a strict code these men follow inside to not snitch on eachother so good luck finding someone who cares that your being screwed over.
My pen pal and I started talking end of 2021 and I guess he has a girlfriend since 2020 and a fiance that he proposed to. He love bombed me and made me think he was so in love with me until his girlfriend contacted me and told me alll about what was going on.