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Staceyann33

So I'm just wondering if anyone ever started out as pp friends then something more developed? I dont speak for myself as its early days but we have a great connection. I just fear over time I'm gonna end up in love lol! My fear is what would people think as hes convicted, and a part of me would feel abnormal and ashamed. Not because I am but because of what others think and they would think I'm weird as it's not 'normal' to meet someone this way you know. I have no trouble dating and I came on here for a friendship but as I said above we have a great connection and I'm starting to like him
Thanks in advance


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Annet7

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elenaandersson…

Omg girl, I'm in the same boat! I've been talking to this guy for a couple month's and I have developed strong feelings for him too. I'm terrified of getting close because I'm scared that my heart will get broken for whatever reason..I've always been like this. At first our conversations were about getting to know one another and then our conversations got a little deeper. I started telling him about some things I've been through and vice versa. I think you're bound to start feeling something if your having deep conversations and then it slowly turns romantic, like he started saying that if I were with him, it would make him the happiest man in the world etc. And I feel the same way, I haven't told anyone because they will probably just say "why don't you get a boyfriend that's not in prison ect"...it's kinda hard to make them understand why you're talking to an inmate. It's not like I'm ashamed or anything, there's absolutely nothing to be ashamed of, it's just hard when people don't understand why, but they don't know how sweet and caring he is. Plus he's in America and I'm in England but if things do get serious, I'm not gonna let anything get in the way of us being together. Sorry it's not exactly advice, I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone lol xx

 
JosephParsons

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kapoyi2698

I'm in love. I am now dating a guy and we are very serious. We have been dating for more than 5 months and for me this is the longest relationship. And this is very strange because we did not plan anything serious and met on the site freedatingsites.com.au/together2night/ and now we love each other very much.

 
Liw

Yes. It has happened to some.. (Guilty! :)) Just listen to your gut feelings and you will be fine, I think. But it's important to try to see the whole picture, like many here have already mentioned; Who is he, behind all the words? Who was he before and who is he now? Who do you think he would be outside of prison and in everyday life? Try not to fall into the dream fantasy world thinking.

And at the same time, don't think the worst and give him the benefit of the doubts. Just be realistic and open minded. If your gut feeling about him is good... then stop worry!

 
kbrown

I have managed to fall in love with someone incarcerated, but regardless to whether he is in or out, it's important to guard your heart and be wise with decisions.  I've almost talked myself out of this several times for no reason, no red flads, no issues, just in my head, concerned about the future and what people will say, especially since my 1st husband is a police officer....But the heart wants what the heart wants. Just have to be watchful, careful and not ignore those flags.

 

 
mjuran

Bellabella1 and Noffgurl1, I thought those were really good answers, and agree with you both.

 
Noffgurl1

 

I can't speak to the in love part because I'm not there yet (though the idea the communication is organized in a more intense way than the outside world is something to remember.) He doesn't have the normal daily distractions that typically slow things down so it is going to progress differently. 
 

As for judgment. You could date a preacher who doesn't have so much as a parking ticket and you'll be judged for it somehow someway. There will always be someone who is "better" than you and your choices in their eyes. More, they are just insecure and need to work on their issues. The other thing to remember is there are two sides to every story. Some of the charges you see? Are probably true on a strictly technical level but if you add up the reality surrounding whatever happened it will make more sense why they did what they did. That doesn't always excuse, but it provides context for understanding. Everyone makes mistakes, maybe not to the degree of being put in prison, but no one is a saint. They are paying their penance. Judges, juries, and everyone else has already done all the judging they don't need more. So any friends and family that want to judge? Need to take a hard look at themselves and figure out why they feel so negative towards another human. 
 

That being said, if a friend or whoever comes to you and are simply concerned for your safety or something, that's obviously different than straight up judging and I would do what I could to allay their fears and show them I am okay and know what I am doing and they can trust my judgment. 

 
Romarion

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Staceyann33

Awe thanks everyone for your input. I'm just enjoying the chats right now!! But nice to see I'm not abnormal. I dont mean that in a disrespectful way. It's just all the judgements from outside that I worry about!

 
Lilo S
Hello, I understand how you feel, I tell you about my experience I started with my pp just as a beautiful friendship and the truth is that the connection became stronger and stronger and now we have been dating for 1 month, I just know that it feels incredible and both We are all the time that we can pending each other, I am not going to tell you that it is easy because it is not, and I do not know what will happen with what we are living but I only know that I feel special and I would like people to know find yourself in the same situation share your experience. I encourage you and never deny yourself anything in life due to doubts or prejudices, if things work well and if you do not have everything you have learned in that relationship.
 
Olinda

Hi, ok im going to talk about my personal experience.. Last year i started talking to my pp using corrlinks, we texted every day, he's in a medium federal prison, we had a strong connection right away, probably cuz we talk about a lot of personal thing (as someone told right).. On december we had to separate due to a covid lockdown in his facility and we started writing letters, we said a lot of nice things, and we missed each other, we missed our goodmorning and goodnight text, and talk every day.. we even started talking about feelings.. when we could hear each other again, we told each other what we felt.. but now I'm wondering many things..I would love to take a step back without hurt him.. in the end it's true, you just know what he wants you to know.. sometimes I think he purposely avoids answering certain questions, idk exactly how to explain it.. I think he's in love of the idea of me, I think maybe he needs someone to make his days a little less heavy.. and at that moment I was there.. Don't get me wrong, he's very sweet and nice to me and writes me a lot of sweet things.. but it's like there's something he doesn't want or can't tell me, idk, that most of the time makes me doubt him.. what I can tell you is not to rush headlong, take your time to get to know him better and then decide.. :-) I hope it was helpful! Have a nice day and good luck :-)

 
MaraBaby88

Girl I found one man I fell in love with and was so ashamaed I cut it off before he came home smh but I completely understand the looking for friendships and great connections but now it's like whatever happens happens and me either I have no problem with dating 

 
bellabella1

In my (limited) experience, I think it's because with your PP you quickly talk about deep personal things you wouldn't speak about with someone you just met in real life. So the connection definitely feels deeper and it's easy to think you're falling for them because you two are able to talk about such personal things. He's also not actually there with you for you to find things that would put you off him as you would find if you were on a real life date with someone. The fear you having of others being judgemental is totally normal, people will definitely judge but if you think it's right for you then you're the only one who can make the decision. 
I think it's important to just take a step back and remember you're only reading/hearing what he wants you to read. So yes you're getting to know each other on a way deeper personal level but a lot of the real life stuff about him is getting missed out.