So I'm new to this whole thing, and I decided to do it because I wanted to put some good into the world, connect with people who want (platonic) connection, etc. I wrote a man about a month ago and got two letters back this week, dated about 6 days apart. He wrote about how he is a nazi (his words, not mine), and asked a couple of times if I was a "Norsegirl." Nowhere did I mention anything romantic, in fact, I thought I had made it pretty clear that I was looking for someone who wanted to be friends. He went on to rant about Jewish people and Black people and "the Fuhrer," and then went on to write a couple of pages about how when he gets out, he would like to take me camping and "snuggle and hold hands and maybe do more...hee hee" (again, his words, not mine). To be perfectly frank with you, I am wildly unnerved by this, particularly since he now has my address. He apparently wrote a friend of his in Germany to email me several photos of himself, shirtless, in his cell (which the friend did). I feel very exposed, even considering that I knew the risks prior to writing, and feel completely stupid as to how I could not have spotted this in him, even though there was no indicator of either the romantic intention or the horrible, terrifying lifestyle this man lives. I am afraid for my life and the security of my location. Am I overreacting? And should I write him back to tell him I no longer wish to speak to him, or not write to him at all? I feel like either decision could lead to horrible consequences, and am truly stuck. Also for technical clarity, he is incarcerated across the country from me and is serving 26-life, currently eligible for parole. Any advice will help, thank you. I feel really sad and scared right now.