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Lau2111

My LO is serving 55 years, he had sentence dropped from murder to manslaughter by reason of insanity. I have some questions as i am new to all this and would REALLY appreciate if i could send a private message to someone in a simlar situation that met through this website. Anyone willing to help me id really really appreciate thank you 

 
Northernyank

I honestly don't see how you can find out. You have to just trust your husband and have faith in your relationship with him. I don't worry that my husband is writing to other females, because we have a strong relationship. When he was at OSP he got 1 hour on the phone, 5 days a week, and he spent every minute of that talking to me. He also, never has to worry about me cheating on him, because the love we have for one another could never be replicated in another relationship. 

 
Sapphirestar

How can I find out if my husband is writing other women while incarcerated

 
Northernyank

Thank you @ST4s, you made me tear up reading your comment. The last week has been incredibly challenging since he was moved and "our privileges" are gone. When I first started writing to pen-pals, a couple of them only had a few years left so I decided to write to a young kid (22, convicted at 18) serving LWOP. It didn't last very long as we struggled to find common ground, and he tried to make some demands on me. I found my husband's profile on here, and was instantly attracted to him, which is actually why I held off writing to him. 10 days after he got my email he pulled all of his ads ( 2 web sites, less than a month posted) and endless calls, visits, letters, emails & videos led to marriage. It's easy to love him, that part comes natural, but it's hard to absorb the enormity of the situation. Some days are better than others,but my life is far better with him as my partner in life then without. 

 
annemariehhh

Awww thank you for that ST4s....it sure isn t easy, as I'd said elsewhere here..something happens and suddenly our best friend & breadwinner is taken away for what could be the rest of our lives. So if this lady wants to take in.private I m down with that. No agenda I gave my e mail, i have no intent to do her or anyone any harm, if theres stuff she or anyone would rather not put out there then that's ok. I'm glad there are people like you on here, who aren't looking to cause shit and make life any harder than it already is, I'm sure northern will say the same.....a huge thank you ST.

 
ST4s

You know what, gals? Back when I started writing, I absolutely avoided writing to folks serving life without parole. I didn't have the courage. I didn't know if I could stick it out or handle it because I don't take this writing to prisoners thing lightly at all. But you, and others, have shown me your courage, and for me, that tipped the balance. Now, I don't have a spouse or fiancée in this circumstance, but I now have two amazing friends who are - friends I'd never have known but for witnessing your strength and resolve. You inspire me. Thank you. I mean that.

 
annemariehhh

Sure is Northern sure is

 
Northernyank

My husband is serving life without the possibility of parole. This is a hard and long road. 

 
annemariehhh

My fiance is a lifer too you can e mail me if you want

Annemarieharris90 [at] googlemail.comrel="nofollow"