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"Stupidest relationship fight"

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PixieWings
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"Stupidest relationship fight"

post away...we all have had them.

Edited by: PixieWings on Jul 5 2014 - 3:23am Reason: Imported from old database.
Anonymous
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Oh chile have I got stories....

Franconia
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(which I hate... it makes me angry...and I cry when I'm angry... making me angry)

In this case I'm just like you hahaha. I almost always cry when I'm really angry. A certain person has the nerves to even pick on me because of this and then I explode.

Lydya
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We were on Rhodes-Greece and hubby decided at 4 PM that he was hungry and wanted to go to the restaurant already. I, the harpy that I am, told him to just grab a sandwich because 4 PM is way too early for my taste to be sitting in a restaurant.
At 5 PM he starts getting grumpy and insisting that we go eat, so I acquiesce but tell him that he'll have to wait 5 more minutes because I want to put on some make up (Don't want to scare any nice Greece people away with my naked-butt face) and all of a sudden he throws a temper tantrum about how he's hungry and I'm just stalling and I'm doing it on purpose because I think he needs to lose weight (This was in our dating time when he had Adonis proportion abs... I still rue the day he gave up on his gym-teacher education)
Needless to say it made for a very silent and awkward meal at the restaurant after this.

Aaaaand our latest stupid fight:
During our vacation to Italy this year, my sister catsat my cats. When we came back I wanted to visit her on a Tuesday. Monday evening my husband gets this creative brainwave to buy her a giftcard for books as a way to say Thank You. Tuesday morning I wake up and it's pouring with rain outside. Knowing my sister doesn't mind getting a non-planned Thank You gift a day later, I refused to brave the downpour because the store that sells them doesn't have parkingspaces... the nearest one is a fifteen minute walk. This was all fine with the hubby... until he got the call that his harddisk had arrived at the store. And then all of a sudden I had an obligation to my sister to get her that giftcard AND pick up his harddisk at the same time. To which I replied that if HE wanted his harddisk that bad he should go himself and pick up the giftcard at the same time. This was not met with approval. So I suggested going together, share the pain if you will. Well... he exploded. Grabbed his jacket, slammed the door and drove to the store in the pouring rain. Returned half an hour later with the harddisk and the giftcard, threw it on the table and went upstairs to sulk. He didn't speak to me for over two hours after that (which I hate... it makes me angry...and I cry when I'm angry... making me angry)
Of course when I complained about it to my sister she accurately told me that I'm lazy (yep) but that he was overreacting AND the 50 (!) euro gift card was really too much. So of course I had to rub that in when I got home afterwards. Hah.

NorthernLight
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I'll start!

I had just been living with my boyfriend for about a week and called him at work and said I was going grocery shopping. I asked if there was anything he wanted me to pick up. He said "bread. The bread is getting old". So I picked up a loaf of bread and threw away the old bread. When he came home he asked me where the bread he had on the counter went. I said "I threw it away because you said it was old". He freaked out and started yelling at me and said to me that he said it was "getting old" not OLD! He literally yelled (and I do mean yelled) for 20 minutes. He was going around slamming things and being an all around A$$. I remember thinking WTF have I done. The living arrangement lasted about 18 months and the relationship a total of six years but if I was smart I would have picked up the phone and called the moving truck that day.

rainy daze
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I went to an xmas party with a boyfriend, I didn't drink because it was a work thing and I didn't want to make a fool of myself in front of my co workers, my boyfriend drank all night and got smashed, I saw it was going to get messy and said we had to leave, he was mad and we got in a fight in the car on the way home.

He said "what! You have a few drinks and can't handle yourself Rainy, picking a fight with me cause you're drunk!" Wtf? I didn't have a single drink all night! Fool

rainy daze
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I was pregnant and had a cold and a sick toddler. All I wanted in the whole world was lemon cake. I asked my then-husband to bring me some on his way back from work, he left work right before the supermarket was closing for the night.
He had the nerve to walk in the door with a lemon PIE. I have never been so angry in my life. It was pretty stupid. I remember calling mutual friends and asking "I mean anyone knows the difference between a lemon cake and a lemon pie, right?"

Once I was mad at a boyfriend and I wanted to really show how angry I was by kicking the wall as hard as I could. My foot went THROUGH the wall, got stuck, and I fell on my butt with my foot still stuck in a hole about 2 feet up on the wall. I wish I could have been him just to see now stupid I must have looked.

I have a similar one, I was really mad at my boyfriend and I tried to swing my purse at him, I put so much momentum into it, missed him and fell down. I swung it once and actually got him too ;)

rainy daze
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I laughed like crazy that foot through the wall..
i had situation back with my ex, we we're going on home and for some reason we had real huge fight, when we entered inside the house, i was furious and supposed to kick of shoes from my foots kind of expressing the level of my rage hehe.. i had boots on, and they we're quite heavily.. well.. i kicked the shoe off my foot, straight to his face and his nose started to bleed.. i'm not sure which one of us went more amazed, i just said i'm so sorry and never meant to do that and got tissues for him almost starting to cry :D
he laughed like crazy and said that i'm surely the first girl ever to almost knocking he down simply with shoe.

This is a good one :)

BirdyB
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Without going into TMI, I once had a cr@p relationship with a guy who had sexual 'issues' (amongst a host of other issues). I was always rejected, which clearly made me feel like sh1t. However, on the outside he gave everyone the impression that he really was 'one of the boys' and was very overtly interested in sex.

Anyway, one of his friends bought him a resin figurine of a naked woman who was posing in a very pornographic position. When I saw it I went bananas. I went to grab it but my boyfriend got to it first, so I tried to take it from him. Some of the limbs got broken off in the struggle....I cut my hand but wouldn't let go. I managed to get it from him and I threw it on the floor and started stamping on it. It proved really difficult to break......and no matter how hard I tried I couldn't break that goddamn enormous a$$ and huge pair of boobs....the a$$ and boobs were separated from the body but they remained intact, taunting me as they laughed menacingly from the carpet. I eventually had to give up due to exhaustion......and I soon dumped the guy :-D

natalieandjames
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The bloody refrigerator made me do it!

Marianela
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I was pregnant and had a cold and a sick toddler. All I wanted in the whole world was lemon cake. I asked my then-husband to bring me some on his way back from work, he left work right before the supermarket was closing for the night.
He had the nerve to walk in the door with a lemon PIE. I have never been so angry in my life. It was pretty stupid. I remember calling mutual friends and asking "I mean anyone knows the difference between a lemon cake and a lemon pie, right?"

Once I was mad at a boyfriend and I wanted to really show how angry I was by kicking the wall as hard as I could. My foot went THROUGH the wall, got stuck, and I fell on my butt with my foot still stuck in a hole about 2 feet up on the wall. I wish I could have been him just to see now stupid I must have looked.

PixieWings
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this one is really stupid. It was back when i was with my son's father..and we where watching about the debate on reinking documents so that future children could read them...omg he just took a fit, and packed his stuff and left. i was like are you kiding me...he when off on this rant about how the gov was stepping on little guys and what not.

PixieWings
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I think one of the more stupid fights was with my ex husband...for no reason what so ever i decided to style my hair one morning and i had no where to go or anything to do outside of cleaning the apartment..and yeah it started a huge fight of that i was cheating because i styled my hair to clean house. Yeah i found out later he was the one cheating...goes to show what you accuse someone else of..it's what your doing.

Nevef
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I laughed like crazy that foot through the wall..
i had situation back with my ex, we we're going on home and for some reason we had real huge fight, when we entered inside the house, i was furious and supposed to kick of shoes from my foots kind of expressing the level of my rage hehe.. i had boots on, and they we're quite heavily.. well.. i kicked the shoe off my foot, straight to his face and his nose started to bleed.. i'm not sure which one of us went more amazed, i just said i'm so sorry and never meant to do that and got tissues for him almost starting to cry :D
he laughed like crazy and said that i'm surely the first girl ever to almost knocking he down simply with shoe.

Silas Sydenham
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If you want to avoid fights, avoid relationships:

Some men, some men
Cannot pass a
Book shop.
(Lady, make your mind up, and wait your life away.)

Some men, some men
Cannot pass a
Crap game.
(He said he’d come at moonrise, and here’s another day!)

Some men, some men
Cannot pass a
Bar-room.
(Wait about, and hang about, and that’s the way it goes.)

Some men, some men
Cannot pass a
Woman.
(Heaven never send me another one of those!)

Some men, some men
Cannot pass a
Golf course.
(Read a book, and sew a seam, and slumber if you can.)

Some men, some men
Cannot pass a
Haberdasher’s.
(All your life you wait around for some damn man!)

{Dorothy Parker}

Gipsy
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I also cry when I'm angry! It makes everything a thousand times worse! :angryfire:

A 50€ gift card surely is one hell of a gift card!