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Blueeyesbethx

 

Hi everyone , 

recently I have become friends with a guy incarcerated and well he seems to be a nice person and we do get along well , we have had a phone call already and we have only been talking for 3 weeks, no problems apart from he sounded like he was talking quietly on the phone which I thought was a little odd. 

He is blowing hot and cold with me , sometimes his a little flirty and then he seems distant even though we have been getting along, what could be the reason for this? He has seen photos of me and said I am pretty so that's not the issue. I just didn't expect someone to be hot and cold I guess as I thought he appreciated my company. 

 

 

 
Blueeyesbethx

Hey everyone thanks for replying I appreciate it, I got the answer I needed. However I need your help again, me and his mother haven't heard from him in days , we either think his in segregation or there in Covid lockdown, as I'm new to this if a inmate is put in segregation are they not entitled to one phone call with there family? Thanks 

 
Rika9

If he's really playing the hot and cold game with you don't chase him. At the end of the day, people who want you in their lives will make that clear.

 
ST4s

What Carmen said. But re: talking quietly on the phone, I'll bet you dollars to donuts there's zero privacy on his end - folks possibly eavesdropping (or trying to) just a few feet away. I'd interpret a quiet conversation on his end as a privacy move, nothing more.

 
Carmen163

Have you asked him? Because I can come up with a thousand reasons, but since I don't know him or you that would all be wild guesses.