So I have exchanged a couple of letters with my penpal over the last few months, my penpal suggested we call each other, as I'm not in the US he said that there's an app to get a US number- he also sent me his sisters contact details so it would be quicker for me to pass the number onto her rather than for him waiting for a letter. He said he was impatient and really wants to get to know me & also said how beautiful I am and how there's something about me that reeled him in lol.
So I rushed to get the app, sent the number to his sister who replied pretty much straight away so I was excited thinking I'd be getting a call any day. I also sent the number to him through PeliPost because I'm keen to talk to him and wasn't sure when he'd even speak to his sister next so I thought if I sent it to him he might get that one quicker...three weeks have gone by and nothing! I tried not to text his sister but I'm so impatient and wanted to know if something was wrong, maybe the number didn't work or she simply just hadn't passed it on yet. So I text her, she replied instantly saying he's busy with his new job, so doesn't get much phone time but she's passed the number on.
I am just really confused, he sounded so interested! I honestly don't know why I'm so bothered about someone I've never met I can't explain it. Have I been ghosted? I understand he'll be busy with his job like his sister said but do they not get days off from work? I just feel like to be waiting 3 weeks for him to call is a really long time especially when he seemed so interested. Obviously having this US number is charging me each month so I'm debating when I should cancel it, I'm still hoping that he might call, the number definitely works I've had my friend try and call it. anyone got any advice?